My father called just a few moments ago. He's decided to go to Oklahoma City for my son's surgery after all. It's funny that his reason now for not wanting to go prior, is that he wasn't sure he'd have the money to go.... because I wasn't sure of an exact time of the surgery. It's also the same reason my mother did not want to go. Now it gets even more interesting, simply because... I was paying for the trip to and from OKC and he knows that.
I'm really debating whether to trust him on his word again. There is a big what if running through my head right now. Like, What If he backs out once again and this time at the very last minute? I think I will continue to look for a back up ride, or some form of transportation, just in case.
So this may very well be a big rock lifted off of my shoulder. I certainly hope so because if my father backs out once again, the Bitch in me will come out! Funny however... because I can't see my mother wanting to get up at 230am to go to OKC. I know her well enough to know that she is going to put up a fight with my father about it. Sigh.
After this trip to OKC I am saving back the paychecks to purchase a car that I can drive. No... If and Or Buts about it!
You need some wheels, so you can visit me
ReplyDeleteThanks for friending me on blogcatalog. I hope things work out so you can be with your son for his surgery. It sucks having to depend on other people.
ReplyDeletejoy :: Yoo can Do It... and yer in Rejuvenation Card mode... Best Wishes for ease of your journey, it'll happen! ~julian
ReplyDeleteHo! Ho! Ho! Joy. I'm pleased to hear that at least you have some good news even though it is still with a huge question mark. I think you are wise to have a plan B. Please remember that you do have friends on here who do care about you and will do whatever we can to help even though it is very questionable as to how.
ReplyDeleteI will do what ever I can. Just ask
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Hope things work out for you. Reminds me of the times my mom used to call me to bring her grocery shopping. It was a 2 hour plus drive to San Francisco one way.
ReplyDeleteYou definitely need some sort of reliable transportation to get you to and from.
hello joy anderson, it's me kher.
ReplyDeleteyes, i'm happy for you that your dad made it. so, how's your son's surgery? hope everything is fine.